cd 09 part 2

life is the same way every day life is going to give you experiences and that you can determine your preference do i want this or do i not want this do i like this do i not like this does this make me feel good or does this make me feel bad if it makes you feel bad good now you've established that's what i don't want and when you look at for a moment what you don't want you can now clearly more clearly define and focus what you do want this allows you to more clearly dial in the proper frequency and transmit it that's what life is life is going to give us a series of things that we don't want that make us feel bad in a series of events and circumstances that we do want and it allows us to clarify what we want and as time goes on we are more focused on what we want and start transmitting what we want and we continue to get more and more and more and more and more of what we want and when something comes in our life or we observe something that's maybe not even in our life but in a friend's life something that we can imagine we wouldn't want something that doesn't give us a good feeling it continues to help us clarify what we do want and allows us to focus so when something bad happens in your life you should pop the champagne because i can tell you this when something bad happens the bigger it is bad the worse it appears it allows you to really focus and transmit a beam with massive power and massive intensity of what you do want that's what you take it as an advantage you are then capable and really only then capable of really generating massive power with your vibration and massive intensity of what you want you can really focus it's like i don't want this i'm sick of this i'm sick and tired that's why there's a point where everything changes for somebody and that's when they get sick and tired of getting sick and tired that's the point where they stop looking at what they don't want and the bad circumstances and situations in their life that's the moment that they stop looking at it they turn their back to it and now they go i'm sick of this this is what i really want and that's when massive desire is developed massive clarity of what you want is developed and that's when the vibration is thrown out from your brain with massive power and massive intensity and you focus on it and you're obsessed with it which means you're thinking about it all the time and you become and you get what you think about most of the time because what you're vibrating most of the time is what is being attracted into your life make sense good any other questions okay what if i'm feeling depressed all the time and i'm having a really hard time feeling good well first off what that means is you've really developed a lot of neural pathways and a lot of habits of focusing on the things you don't want and people do this all the time out of habit because one thought attracts another like thought with a like feeling and another like thought with another like feeling so i see people all the time that are virtually little little negative and always thinking about the negative all the time it's their habit and their pattern which means they have this huge ball of negative energy they're walking around with and a little thing a person walks into a meeting and he has a cup of coffee and he puts the coffee down and the first thing he says virtually to himself is now watch me spill this see he's instantly thinking about i'm going to spill the coffee which he does see people are always putting a negative spin on everything because they're always looking at something and because of habit they're thinking about what they don't want they're thinking about how it what they what they hope won't happen see wary wary is negative goal setting weary is simply thinking about what you don't want to happen so you have developed that huge pattern so for you to go from where you're at to complete bliss is an impossible jump wherever you are feeling remember this whatever you're feeling when you're feeling a negative emotion or any emotion whatever you're feeling all you want to do is feel a little better whatever you're feeling you want to feel a little better a little relief if you're depressed wouldn't it be better if you felt anger because that's a little bit better than depressed yeah i mean if you're depressed you actually are feeling better if you're feeling angry you're kind of moving up on the emotional scale so your objective is always just to feel a little better and if you're feeling completely depressed and you're having a hard time feeling good what do you do well first i would start doing all the things on the list that we talked about go for a walk get some sun do the callahan technique or go to the gary craig website and use that tapping technique very powerful look at the drugs you're taking first off do some cleanses it may take a few weeks or a few months before you actually start getting to a better place do the appreciation what can you be appreciated if you do that every day three four five six times what can i be appreciative for that will start forcing you to focus on something good and positive which will mean by law of attraction more thoughts will come in and your positive ball will start getting bigger and bigger and bigger and that's the procedure you're at conscious competence so you have to do it you won't get the unconscious competence until you get to the point where your positive ball is bigger than your negative ball this makes sense this is why it's important if you're doing the technique and you're defining what you want and you're thinking about it but you're feeling bad you can't focus on that because that that goal then is too big at that moment you're spending too much time thinking about the how and the lack of it do you understand when you're thinking about something you want and you feel bad that means you're convinced you're not going to get it you're focusing on the lack of it the fact that you don't have it and now you're vibrating i don't have it i don't have it i don't have it i don't have it i don't have it and when you're focusing on that that's what you get more of see it's perfectly okay if you say well i'm massively in debt i don't have much money right let's say that's your situation and you want more money and you want to get out of debt so it's okay to say right now i am massively in debt and i don't have much money that's the situation but what most people do is they go and i have no idea how i'm going to get out of debt i don't know how i'm going to get more money i don't know how i'm going to get more money i don't know how i'm going to get out of debt i just keep getting worse in debt i just keep getting worse and worse nothing goes my way i mean i'm so unlucky everything everything is working against me i don't understand how how bad things are it just keeps getting worse and worse i'm worse off today than i was a year ago i just keep getting further and further in debt i don't understand maybe i'm a compulsive spender maybe it's the banks maybe it's the interest rates maybe it's the fees it's my job i can't get a raise i can't get more money i'm always getting sick every time i'm getting close to doing something it just works out against me but guess what you're vibrating that into your life and that's what you're going to get instead say i'm massively in debt i don't have much money but and i have no idea how i'm going to get out of debt or get more money but i know something will present itself i don't know how so right now i know that in time and i don't know when but everything will work out fine everything always works out fine i don't know how but i'm sure things will work out okay see you're just trying to get some feeling some thought that makes you feel better maybe for you you have to say you know something i'm in debt i don't have much money and maybe i'll never get out of debt maybe i'll go through the rest of my life and never get out of debt and never have much money but you know something that's okay that's not so bad at least i'm not living in some country where i'm sleeping on dirt every day you know so maybe i'm in debt it isn't so bad see maybe that is the only thing you can grasp on to and feel good about and say but i'm sure things will turn around maybe i'll slowly get out of that maybe little by little maybe something will happen see you start thinking just a little better thought the key is to feel good now but the real key is don't focus on feeling spectacular the real key is when i say feel good now it's feel better now you should always be working on feeling a little bit better than where you're at because you're all at different levels does this make sense okay good question how how important and powerful are words yeah we talked a little bit about words words the words you use are really irrelevant because what's really relevant is when you are speaking words words do have vibration but when you're speaking words it's the attachment of the vibration to the word that's more important so if i use a word and you use the same word we may use the same word but have a completely different vibration attachment to it so the real key is use words that when you're saying them they make you feel good they make you feel better and everybody has different speech patterns and words that you use again my phrase that makes me feel much better is everything everything always works out everything always works out for me in the end i don't know how but it will always work out all is well that's another phrase that people use all is well things are fine things always work out things always work out i don't know how and i can't explain how but i just know everything always works out because i'm feeling good and i'm putting out a good vibration and good feelings are coming into my life in good situations and things will always just work out fine because they always do so words are important and speaking is important because when you say words you're reflecting what your thoughts are but you can also use words to change your thoughts and you're looking for thoughts that are giving you good feelings so choose words wisely oh it'll be fine i mean that's a great phrase it'll be fine it'll work out it'll work out i don't know how it'll work out everything's terrific someone says how are you say a word or phrase that makes you feel better you can be as goofy as saying i'm good and getting better oh if it was any if i felt any better it'd be illegal oh i'm i'm really getting i'm getting better every day i'm feeling great you can say something that makes you feel good but don't lie don't say something makes you feel bad let's say i had a rough night last night how are you and let's say you feel horrible how are you i feel great well you don't you feel horrible so it's perfectly okay someone says how you doing well you know i was feeling really terrible but i'm really getting better i'm working on really getting better because that's an accurate statement i was really feeling terrible well i got some bad news this morning and i felt like i got hit in the stomach but i'm working through that i'm getting better see that's an accurate statement you can feel good about that step because you're telling the truth if you say i feel terrific i feel fantastic you're lying and actually you'll feel worse because your your your mind is going to be focused on the lack of feeling terrific and fine and on the problem make sense okay question excellent question when you're using this technique in relation to another person let's say you want this person to give you a raise or you want this person to do something don't isn't their thoughts goals and desires uh affecting the process the answer is yes remember when you transmit a vibration that vibration is picked up by other brains and affects physical matter so when you're dealing with another human being and you're putting out a vibration and this human being for example is going to give a a raise to somebody or this person is going to decide whether he's going to buy your house at a certain price and you're trying to put that vibration out they may be putting out a counter intention vibration or somebody else may be giving an attention to them as well that's affecting them this is why it's important that the ultimate the larger scheme of things the feeling that you ultimately want is what you're vibrating and this is why you have to care but not that much and this is why one specific thing on a specific time frame is not the ideal way to send out a vibration but rather a more general vibration of how you want to feel and a knowledge that there are things outside the radar screen that you don't know about that are probably much better off for you than what you even consider and see with your own two eyes so if i'm dealing with a person i want this person to invest in my company well do i want this person to invest in my company or do i want investment into my company and do i really want investment into my company or do i want my company to grow and prosper do you understand you may think that you need this guy to give you investment into your company otherwise everything's going to crumble that's the wrong thought process maybe you need investment but you may think you need investment into your company for it to grow and prosper and you to be ultimately successful but maybe that's not true so what you ultimately want is you want your company to grow and prosper so you can be ultimately successful but that's not true what you really want is for you to feel powerful and successful and feel that you've achieved something and become ultimately wealthy that's what you really want you don't want this guy to give you investment you think that's the method to get you to the ultimate objective which is you want to feel powerful feel you've achieved something and become wealthy that's what you want you think you want this guy to give you an investment that's not what you want so when you're vibrating i want this guy to give me an investment that's really not it so when you actually look at what you want it's much better to say what do i really want here do i want this guy to give me an investment no i think this is what's needed guess what gang you ain't that smart this is why you can't assume things that happen or don't happen or good or bad because you have to really go what do you ultimately want here and let the universe use the best method to get you to where you want to go so in this example you don't want this for example you don't want this guy to give you an investment and you don't want investment and you don't want your company to prosper what you're really looking for is you want to feel you know that you've achieved something that you've created something and become wealthy so focus on that without the specifics because what the method in the way that you think that's going to happen probably is not the method that is best and the way it will work out anyway so don't even focus on it does this make sense if you think i want this guy to buy my house no you may think well i want somebody to buy my house no you may say well yeah i want to sell my house well why do you want to sell your house so i can have enough money so i can buy a new house ah so what you want is you want to buy a new house you think the method that will get you to buy a new house is to sell your existing house well maybe that's not the right thing maybe this is not the right time maybe the market's going to change in six months that you don't know about and it'll be much better if you don't sell the house now and that maybe there's going to be a great new house that's going to be given to you at a spectacular deal and you can rent this house out and have a fantastic investment you understand you don't know the method so it's much better to be general with your witches and it's much better to really when you're thinking about what you want ask yourself why do i really want this what's the why do i think i want this and keep going up the line and go okay why do i want this because maybe you know why do i want this watch because that's the watch i want fine and why do you want that watch because i think it looks gorgeous fine and why and and what feeling you're gonna get when you put the wash on well it goes with my clothes and it looks gorgeous and it's totally unique and i just like the way it looks and of course i like the way people will react when they see it okay so it's not a watch you even want what you want is something that makes people look at you as very unique and special and maybe have money and you want to feel good do you understand it isn't that particular watch it isn't even a watch at all it is it isn't even a piece of jewelry so when you stop moving up the line and start focusing on this life becomes much easier because you're letting the universe provide for you the best things instead of what you think now there is nothing wrong with saying i want that particular watch because that's the watch i want but if you lighten up a little bit and let the universe provide for you life is much much much easier does this make sense and i can tell you not only easier but better because you get better stuff because what you think is the best what you think is the best method almost ultimately always isn't which is why i'll tell you a little secret when you start wanting things and you get them most people think this is not what i thought it would be but when you let the universe give you things because you're going ultimately higher on the ladder you feel so much better about it yes good question talk more about the importance of writing things down i can just tell you this you should have always lots of paper white paper white paper pens with blue ink write things down write your goals down write your wishes down write your dreams down write things down magical things happen when you take a thought and you put it on paper in words i mentioned i i can't spend all the time on the subject but the bottom line is if you're writing things into a computer you are completely missing out on one of the best opportunities for creation because your brain will put out a vibration much stronger with much more intensity with much more clarity when you take your desires and you write them out of what you want because you're transmitting through your whole dna structure that feeling through the kinetics of writing there's over ten thousand different movements when you move and write so neural pathways begin to grow you feel better you remember the information better you focus on the information better you bring greater clarity to the information by writing than by putting things in typing into a computer for example so write things down very key