cd 13 part 3

so these techniques always work 100 of the time if somebody says no i wanted a new car i've been using this technique and i didn't get it i guarantee you what he was doing when he was focusing on the new car was he was focusing on the fact that he doubted he would get the car or that he was afraid he wasn't going to go to the car or you follow me in other words you cannot it always it's a physical law of the universe the law of attraction so when somebody says i've been focusing on this and it hasn't come into my life yet i can guarantee when i sit down with the person and just look at their face the way they're feeling when they think about it it's doubt which means they're thinking about not getting it they're focusing on it not happening or the fear of it not coming in as opposed to the exhilaration and exuberance feeling they should have knowing that it comes in you can just see that one i i see this my whole life somebody says you know i wanted to uh to get this new such and such and uh it just hasn't come in yet i goes well um you know think about what you want okay how do you just look at his face depression okay he's thinking about the new car and he's first thing and you see he gets all depressed and the reason the reason is when he thinks about the cadillac he has he he absolutely doesn't believe he can get it category doesn't believe he's going to come in and he's depressed well guess what he's not beli he's not doing the technique what he's doing is is he's believing and thinking about it not happening thus he's creating that so that this always 100 percent works it doesn't like oh i tried it and it didn't work whatever you're vibrating is coming into your experience 100 percent it's the hardest thing for people to grasp that they create their entire experience with their own thoughts but it's it's the one thing when you can believe it and think about it and use it that's when everything magically changes good question good answer thank you so is there a machine out there that could detect and hook me up to so you can see my negative ball versus my positive uh there isn't a machine but there's something that you have that can detect your negative ball versus your positive ball and it's how you feel and that's why the first thing i said on the cds is when you're using these techniques there's one senior wish desire or goal you should always have that's senior to everything else which is why when you think about everything you want it all rolls down to this anyway this is where the rubber meets the road and that is your gut desire should always be first and foremost above everything else feel good right now but but what about the people who feel good in their negativity there are people who think that they feel good but they're being negative and maybe they don't have an indicator of what feeling good really feels like oh that's a very good question i was actually with a guy in palm in in palm beach in his uh in his uh 30 million dollar house and that was with two of my friends and one of my buddy one's an older guy in his 80s and the guys in the 60s and um the older guy uh who's the house we were in went to have a cup of coffee or something and i'm chatting with my friend he goes he goes uh you know didn't mention his name he goes he's the most miserable son of a gun in the world i goes no he's the most negative guy he's smiling all the time he loves being a jerk i mean he he loves he loves acting like he's negative about everything and he looked and he goes i've known him 50 years you're exactly right he just loves it i go so yeah he's feeling good it's an act it's like it's really an act he and you don't you can't read his mind and you can't read how he feels right but he does but when he's blabbering and and bitching and screaming and complaining about the maids and complaining about the cook and complaining about the chauffeur and complaining about this he's going to smile on his face so he's actually feeling remember the words don't matter the words are irrelevant it's the feeling associated with it so he's appearing to be negative to you and i believe me you don't know what thoughts he has or what vibration he's picking out and we don't know how he really feels but we can look at the indicator how he feels and it looks like he feels pretty good you say feel good now sometimes people do things they shouldn't do to feel good right now they they go have something to eat they should need or they go buy something they shouldn't buy or they over extend themselves to buy the cadillac thinking i'll just go get it and now they've got negativity from that how do they know the difference how do you know the difference from you know the cadillac's gonna come to me versus well i can just go buy it and uh you know skip some skip some uh you know tuition payments for my kids yes whatever whatever it is and some people do things they take drugs or drink and they do things too to feel better actually what they're doing is they're not feeling better and this is a really really really really good question if you think of anything you've done negatively in your life and we all have whether it's drink to excess when uh because you want to feel good usually you're drinking the excess when you're feeling bad right so you want to feel good so let me just get open up a bottle of scotch and drink it uh let me eat that you know two pounds of macaroni and cheese and pot roast with gravy and mashed potatoes and sit in front of the tv and you know have that you know two pints of ice cream this is going to make me feel good usually we do these things when we are feeling bad and what we're really doing is we're not we're trying to feel good but the method we're using is we're trying to mask the pain so the theory is if i mask the pain i'll feel better you're not feeling good you follow me you're just eliminating the pain and so your goal is not to eliminate pain because if your goal is to think about this for a second if your goal is to i want to eliminate my pain i want to eliminate my pain i want to eliminate my pain i want to get rid of my pain i want my pain to go away what are you doing you're thinking about pain you're focusing on what you don't want and whatever you focus on you get more of remember whatever you really really really really want you get and whatever you really really really really don't want you get that too so the key is rather shifting that because and you'll know now that you know this technique ooh i don't want to illuminate my pain i want to feel good and i guarantee categorically if you are focused on feeling good instead of eliminating pain you won't open up a bottle of scotch and drink the whole bottle you may have a glass because there's nothing wrong with that you may have a cigar you may go have some macaroni and cheese but you'll enjoy every moment of it and you'll feel good about it you'll think you know this is fine you're not going to feel bad 10 minutes later because the reason you feel bad 10 minutes later is all you did was do something to mask the current pain and when you stop doing that the pain is still there that makes sense so if you focus on feeling better what can i do to feel just a little bit better and no matter what emotion you're at all you're trying to do is feel a little bit better so if you think about this emotional scale okay bliss is at the top depression suicide is at the bottom okay if you're depressed right and you know you get a bottle of scotch in front of you and a gun you can't say i want to feel bliss that's way too big of a jump what you want to do is say i don't want to be you don't want to be depressed anymore so what you're saying is how can i feel a little bit better than this and guess what better could be getting really angry angry is actually a better feeling than depressed think about it if you start going f this i'm sick of this and you start getting really angry that's a better feeling than depressed with a gun to your head does that make sense so all you want to do is just get a little better feeling because when you get there remember the old saying go as far as you can see when you get there you'll see further so in an emotional scale when you're at a certain point you can only get a little bit better and as you go up your jumps can be a little bit bigger but in the beginning you're going to really go baby steps so you just want to feel a little bit better so an answer to your question feeling good now is categorically the most important thing but it's not eliminating the pain and the examples you gave the guy who just goes buys the car whacks up his credit cards guarantee he's not trying to feel good he's trying to do something to mask the pain so his focus is on pain so the key is masking not masking the pain but the key is focusing on what you want and not what you don't want but then answer your question i really want to help somebody excuse me who needs help but it's not working because that person's negative ball is through the roof you know drinking drugs whatever it is it just gets to a point where it's like i've done everything i can that person's just on their own yes right absolutely as a matter of fact the best thing you can do because this this question comes up a lot what can i do to help somebody i have i have a friend who's got cancer i got a friend who's drinking a guy who's depressed a buddy of mine what can i do to help what can i do to help what can i do to help what can i do to help him and the answer is you work on yourself first this is the hardest thing for most people to grasp if you want to help your best friend be super happy yourself work on you because your vibration is going to affect them remember einstein and edison said whatever you vibrate from your brain is picked up by other brains so if you want to help them all you have to do is work on yourself and raise your vibration that is going to have an impact on this person let me tell you the type of impact that vibration may be so positive and so high it may repel the other person because their vibration may be so low they may hate being around you because they just can't they just can't take it because it's so and that's helping them because they're going to attract in their life what they're vibrating and if you're around them you can affect their brain but that's the best way to help anybody is just to work on yourself first and what will happen is believe me friends will start vanishing new friends will start coming in you know for years we've known we've known uh statistically that your income is always the average of your five best friends and when you want your income to go up generally speaking your friends change i mean that's generally what occurs because all of a sudden you're at a different vibrational level you're not you're not attracting those people anymore in your life you're not enjoying their company anymore because you're vibrating differently so you start attracting different people circumstances events scenarios and tangible things so then the reverse question comes up by being around a whole bunch of people with a lot of negative energy can that bring you down good question if you're around a lot of people with negative energy can that affect you energy always affects others however the good news is this the positive vibration is higher than a lower negative vibration so on in terms of power and intensity voltage and page whatever you want to say one positive thought is much more powerful than around ten thousand negative thoughts so if i'm a positive person i walk in a room with 20 negative knuckleheads guess what they don't have a chance because my energy will affect them infinitely more than though they will affect mine now there's a good chance when you start changing your vibration and raising it and you're in an environment and this was on the in the movie the secret you know the guy started raising his all of a sudden he got transferred to a different different department three people quit two people like within within days all of a sudden his whole scenario changed and he was surrounded by like-minded vibrational people because that's the way it works what about like society the country during down times during recession during a depression where it seems like it builds and builds and builds and all everybody's talking about is oh it's bad it's bad it's bad is it is it the same concept where you just it's like okay just go focus on yourself yeah it's bad for them yeah it may be bad for them ain't bad for me it's hugely opportunistic yeah it's if it's bad bad bad bad bad you know i had a friend of mine years ago during one of the other recessions that was disastrous the world was coming to an end and he said um i said to him i said um you know you're in you're in sand and gravel and concrete you've got four other you know huge businesses uh that supplies uh you know commodities to america it says how are you handling the recession and he says oh i just chose not to participate and that's what does that but it was you just i just chose not to participate so you what goes on around you does not have to affect you you can look at it and go wow look at this this is kind of interesting here everybody here is you know in a breadline and i mean during the depression 25 of the people were out of work 75 had jobs and more wealth was created during the depression than any time in our history because people were going wait a minute there's a piece of land here that was selling for ten thousand dollars and now they're giving away for ten dollars well i think i'll buy two of those and then ten years later that ten thousand that that land they bought for ten bucks was worth two hundred thousand i mean more wealth was created during the depression than any time in history and what's you know what's occurring around the world when you know if you just believe that i am going to take it full of advantage this is the best see every day is always the best time in the world to do anything i have friends who are in the automobile business and they used to they used to uh if they had a customer the first couple days of the month they told the customer this is the best time to buy a car because it's the first couple days a month we haven't sold the car yet and my boss wants to make a deal at any price you're going to get the best deal ever so if you ever want to buy a car always come the first couple days because if you're the first guy to buy a car they give them away because he wants the first deal on the board to get the ball rolling you it's your lucky day to buy a car today now if you come in the middle of the month they go you know coming in the middle of the month is the best time during the month to buy a car and the reason is my boss is just dying to hit the number that hits his monthly nut he needs to get that magic number and he's doing everything right now to get it as fast as he can so they give the best deals on a car in the middle of the month because he's trying to hit his number and right and he's got to do it no matter what so he gives the cars away now if you come in the end of the month he goes you know it's your lucky day if you ever want to buy a car you come at the end of the month because the boss has already hit his number of hitting his overhead everything now is pure profit he gives the cars away he doesn't have to make any profit on them at all it's just numbers now it gets some higher allocations next month so at the end of the month they just blow the cars out as fast as they can at the cheapest possible prices all three of those things by the way 100 true so same thing in in in in a scenario whatever the scenario is all we have to do is believe and say with vibration this is a fantastic time to do business and somebody can say tell me exactly why and my answer is i don't know why i don't have to know why i just have to believe that it is and the evidence will show up in a while see whatever you believe the evidence validates it that's why henry ford said if you believe you can or if you believe you can't either way you're right and his later statement was because the evidence will validate it so whatever you believe is you are completely correct and in a short period of time you'll have all the evidence to back up your belief to prove you are correct and that evidence came into your experience because you believed it first does this make sense so that's why i say everything always works out for me how can you say that ask me in a few months then we'll have all the all of it all the evidence see it's the future thinking that's the tricky part good question any other question in the comments or observations about the tapes any clarifications you need anything in the tips so i have a question um for example you have a dream and now you have and you attracted all the people that you wanted for your dream and here they are all and they're helping you and vibrations are wonderful but then all of a sudden there is a person that just appears and starts bringing this disbalance to the whole group is it a sign for you as the dream of uh what's the name the dream guide that something is going wrong in your mind right now or it's just a sign for you to okay i'm moving on i don't care maybe this person has different dream i just want to avoid this person so do you really how you how you know that this is the person that can teach you something or this is just a person that has a lot of negative energy and you don't want to mess up with his energy the bottom line is everything everything that comes into your experience you vibrationally create it you can choose at any point in time whether you want it or not sometimes isn't this true we want something really really bad and we get it and then we decide we don't want it after all that make sense it's like wait a minute i thought i wanted this i i don't like this you ever order something on a menu looks really good comes kind of what this i should have ordered what you ordered well you no problem so you could be vibrating you're vibrating something and something is coming into your experience and whatever's there if you don't like it you can choose you know you may not even know why or how you vibrated and created this in your life but it's there you created it you have to worry about how but the fact is you did and so if you don't like it you shift it when you look at things you don't like or don't want or feel feelings you don't want you just look at them for a moment acknowledge them and then decide okay i know i don't want this what do i want every quote negative experience that comes into your life every negative experience that comes into your life primarily is there to help you clarify what you want if you know what you don't want you can now clarify what you do want so whatever comes into your life that you don't want just acknowledge it and use it as a method of helping you clarify what you do want so immediately look at what it is you don't like acknowledge it for a moment then don't look at it now say okay i know i don't want this what is it that i do want and focus on what you want what you want what you want turn your back on what you don't want see the reason that people don't move off point zero and get what they want was to keep focusing and talking about what they what they don't want i i need more money but i don't have any and i don't know how i'm gonna have any but i want more but i can't i don't know how i'm gonna get it and i never get any more money every time i every time i try to get more money money doesn't come in all they're doing is thinking about no money no money no money no money no money instead of focusing on you look we know you don't have any money okay but get off that start talking about and thinking about what it is you do want that changes the focus so if there's a person that comes into your life or an experience that comes into life that's negative energy you get a dynamic group of people working on a project and all of a sudden a new person comes in and you're thinking oh my god what this is like a disaster okay believe me you vibrated that in and then say what don't i like fine what is it that i want and focus on that and a couple things will happen the person will change person will leave you'll get moved into a different direction it'll all work out fine there's too many thousands of potential scenarios that could happen because you know maybe you're you're vibrating something that this person is actually giving you i mean that's why they're there you're vibrating something to create it and again what appears to be negative generally isn't so it's there for a reason so we don't have to look at it just look at it as something to clarify what you do want i just want to end with this you listen to the cds once believe me you need to listen to them again and again and again and as i say in the cds listening to information daily reading books daily and associating other people on a daily basis is vitally important so that you continue to focus and build up your positive ball of energy to get to the tipping point then it becomes a joy and it becomes unconscious competence and it starts happening automatically start small start applying these things and you'll absolutely see the results little by little by little but it will start happening you