cd 09 part 1

morning hope everybody had a good uh good evening we had a long day yesterday covered a lot of material everybody's smiling today anything interesting happen yeah yeah i know we were talking about it at breakfast it's already working some of you were playing around with this last night working on these techniques feeling better really increasing the way you're feeling and the anticipation and this one particular gentleman who's single just had never been able to attract any one you know female partner into his life and he was working on that as a primary objective look i want to have a relationship which is a good objective it's great to be in a relationship and he was using this actually in in class yesterday really focusing on that that was the one thing he was working on and then last night he went off by himself to a restaurant and a woman just came right up to him just came right up to him and started chatting in a conversation and they wound up having dinner and you were amazed but not amazed because you were almost expecting it right exactly people always ask when you do this are you surprised at the results and the answer is if you're doing this effectively you are not surprised at the results because you expect it so it's no surprise and you've actually experienced it in your mind first as if it's already happened so when it happens it's no surprise in the movie star wars the jedi master yoda was training the young jedi apprentice luke skywalker and in one particular scene luke skywalker's jet plane had landed in a lake and yoda was teaching luke how to use the force to lift the jet plane out of the lake with his mind and move it on dry land so he could take off and luke tried to do this and the jet plane began to lift and then went back down into the lake and sunk yoda then frustrated with luke and his inability to grasp this used the force lifted the jet plane out with his mind onto dry land and i know it's a movie but here's the point when luke saw yoda do this luke said oh my i don't believe it and yoda said that is why you fail because he couldn't even believe it and that's why he couldn't do it in the beginning because he didn't believe it from a scriptural standpoint there's an interesting story in the bible about jesus who was walking on water and peter the apostle was looking at jesus walking on water and was so excited he went out to greet jesus and the bible says that peter walked on water peter was walking on the water and it says as peter was walking on the water peter looked down and saw that he was walking on the water himself and saw the waves and saw the water and became frightened and began to sink now this is exactly what we're talking about when you start thinking about what you don't want to happen when fear and doubt come in all of a sudden you get the opposite result remember what you really really really really really want you'll get but also what you really really really really really don't want you get that too whatever you're thinking about you get and if you're thinking about what you don't want to happen you know that because you feel crummy and when you feel crummy that's what's coming in so to get what you want in life anything and everything you want you do the procedure you define what you want you focus on that with intensity and power which means emotion positive anticipation as if you've already had it you do that for a certain duration every day the more the better at least for a minute and a half each time and then you have to believe without any doubt which means you just need to focus on what you want and not what you don't want and you know that because as you do that procedure you'll feel good so you do the procedure which is thinking about what you want anticipating you've already received it you know you're doing the procedure correctly if you're excited and you feel really good if you see yourself in the picture and if you're feeling as if you've already achieved it that's the ultimate that's the first thing and the second thing throughout the day always work on your emotions and work on feeling good all the time because that will get your positive energy up and make the procedure easier to apply and make everything happen questions yes question is about actions the how versus the thoughts now we all know that the thoughts are 99.9 of it but the question is you mean to tell me i can sit home and just think and create anything i want without physically doing anything don't i have to do something and the answer is no you don't have to do anything however when you're using this technique you will want to do things actions become a joy and a pleasure but here's the trick if you're doing any actions to make something happen because we think we have to make it happen so we go out there and have to do things we have to work work work work work work work work to make it happen if you're doing any actions to make something happen that you want and you feel frustrated or bad or annoyed doing the actions your actions are fruitless they're not going to create any results your actions should be a joy and a pleasure even if you're working 18 hours a day when you look at all the successful people we all say the same thing we love not just like we love what we're doing it gives us incredible joy and exhilaration doing actions but the thought process is first the thought process is first and when the actions become frustrating that's when people decide you know i'm not going to focus on the actions because that's making me think about what i don't want to happen and making me feel bad i'm going to go golfing i'm going to go to the movies i'm going to take a vacation i'm going to go to the beach people say we're in the midst of a crisis how can you be taking a vacation because for me to go into the office and start working in the midst of this crisis i'm going to feel absolutely horrible at this moment in time so i need to do something so i can feel good because feeling good makes it all work so the actions are not that significant doing is not that significant this is why the how which is you're looking at your radar screen and you're thinking how can this how can this event work out to my advantage how am i going to turn the situation around and the answer is you don't know because you're looking at your radar screen but what you have to know is that 99 of all the stuff that's available is off the radar screen and the circumstances and events that the universe has given you because of what you have been vibrating and you have been creating in your life will work out to your advantage and when you have that knowingness you'll feel good and you'll always say i have no idea how that's going to happen i don't know why this is a good thing when a bad thing happens we understand it's not necessarily a bad thing as a matter of fact it never is a bad thing there's a story about the the man in china who had a son and he said i want my son to be safe and live a long life and there's so much chaos going on in china and so much famine and war i'm afraid for my son i'm afraid he could be killed i'm afraid he could be killed in war i'm afraid we could die of famine or he could be sick and i just want my son to live a long healthy happy life and one day his son fell off a horse and broke his leg and all of his friends said oh what a terrible thing your son fell off the horse and broke his leg and the father said i don't think it's a terrible thing i don't know why but i think actually it's a good thing i don't know why but i believe it's a good thing i feel good the next day the chinese army came riding into town and they took all the young men and they recruited them into the army to fight in the wars but they didn't take this man's son because he had a broken leg and the story goes on and on and on to talk about how each situation that happened to the sun which appeared to be bad at the time turned out to be a blessing and we don't know how we don't need to know how the key is your thought process and the key is how you think the evidence of how you're thinking is twofold number one how are you feeling if you're feeling good that means your thought process is right online if you're thinking bad that means it's not the other evidence is what you're saying what are the words you're saying are you looking at things as they are and focusing on what you don't want or what seems to be terrible or are you looking forward and creating tomorrow with anticipation so words that you say really are a strong indicator and this is another powerful technique is to use your words wisely and say things in a way which will help focus your thoughts words are very important because they help focus your thoughts they do two things they show you what you're thinking but they also help create and focus your thoughts so by saying certain things in a certain way it'll help focus your thoughts in the correct method so i've been giving you a lot of phrases on these you know for those of you listening on the cds and for those of you who are here that's why i'm listening to these cds over and over again but these are patterns neural pathways that you have to start developing they're automatic for me and other folks you need to start saying things and start developing some speech patterns which will start developing some neural pathways which will start developing some predominant thought patterns which will start developing some predominant constant vibrations that you're transmitting out of your brain which will create more like-minded positive vibrations which will make everything work better and faster so various things that you have to say verbally with your mouth in whatever language you're speaking things such as everything always works out for me i'm lucky i'm blessed you know this appears to be really negative but i know everything will work out fine everything will work out fine everything will work out fine i don't know how but everything always works out fine in the end all is well everything is just fine i expect miracles and i get miracles everything always turns out to my advantage in the end this will ultimately work out to my benefit see those are the type of speech patterns and when you understand this incredible concept life becomes so much more of a pleasure and life becomes so much easier as you go forward that make sense question uh-huh okay what if i'm doing everything i'm doing the technique i seem to be doing everything i'm doing everything on the list i'm going for walks i'm eating right i'm doing the callaghan doing all these things i'm really doing this technique and i'm feeling really good all day long but nothing seems to be happening i i'm not getting what i want i'm thinking about it all the time but it's just not coming in well or or bathya or something bad happens like i'm really feeling good today tomorrow the next day i'm feeling good and i know where something horrible appears well or nothing or what i want just doesn't seem to be coming in number one don't put a time frame on things first off you're giving me an example of something that hasn't really occurred to you you're just thinking what if this occurs well first off it's pretty unlikely that those things could happen however let's talk about that because some people start using this technique today and tomorrow and go hey it's the third day where is it don't put a time limit on things don't put a time because the universe is doing everything at perfect speed for you to give you the feeling you want that's ultimately to your benefit so don't put a time frame on things my friend herb cullen who wrote a book called you can negotiate anything nice jewish guy from chicago taught us seminars while smoking a cigar and he talked like this and he said in life and in negotiation you have to care but not that much and that's really the type of attitude you have to have you have to care but not that much when it comes to the time because once you start putting emphasis on time and trying to make it happen you doubt starts to come in you start focusing on what you don't want and then it really stops the whole process from working anyway so you're not getting the benefit so don't worry about the time don't worry about how fast it's coming in because it will you need to not even care that it's not physically in your life anymore because you're experiencing it in your mind and when you're at that point it'll come in so fast it'll be ridiculous as you start using this technique it will happen faster and faster and faster because you'll have less and less negative thoughts or doubt or lack of belief which is going to hinder the process so these things will come and keep in mind sometimes you're focusing on a particular thing and remember when you're focusing on a particular thing that you want you're adding the emotion that that thing is going to give you and the first thing that's going to start coming in is other thoughts that mimic that emotion and the next thing that comes in is the physical experience of circumstances and events situations and people that allow you to feel that emotion this is why you don't want to be transmitting hate towards somebody because if you transmit hate or anger towards somebody else that's going to come into your life and you're going to experience this experience situations event where you feel hate and anger but if you transmit love toward people happiness or if you transmit things that you want that give you great feelings of exhilaration and pleasure then experiences and situations are going to come into your life that give you that exact same emotion if you're happy today tomorrow all day you're glee you're singing you're dancing you're feeling great and you're saying i don't know how how things are going to turn out but i know they're going to turn out great i just know i can feel it i'm so happy things are going to turn out fantastic i don't know how but i'm i'm i'm looking for this big win i know i'm going to get this i just feel great about getting this promotion and things are going to work out great for me and man i'm getting out of debt and i don't know how but i'm using the technique and a week later you get not only not the promotion but you lose your job and you think how could that have occurred believe me when you are vibrating i want that promotion i want that promotion i want to get out of debt what you're vibrating is i want the feeling of more money i want more money maybe more freedom more responsibility and i want to get out of debt and all of a sudden you lose your job believe me the universe got you out of that job so that you're going to get a better job or your own business or a better opportunity that's how it works so when you get that's like breaking the leg it's not bad what you think is bad isn't as long as you're feeling good when something happens don't look at it as bad look at it with anticipation and excitement and go wow it's already happening something happened now i don't know how this is going to turn out to my advantage but it obviously is something is happening because i feel good this event can't be bad that's a very important concept now there's one other concept here when you think things are bad or or you lose your job or you come down with an illness you think that's bad no because when you have in your life something that you don't think is good it forces you to really clearly define and focus on what you want you have the best opportunity to create things in your life when things are not going well you also have the best opportunity to focus on those things and create more of it the bad stuff so anytime something negative happens in your life take it as an absolute blessing because it is because it focuses and forces you to focus on that which you want the key here is when something bad happens in your life something negative something that you didn't anticipate something you don't think is good it's okay to acknowledge it but don't acknowledge it as bad the first thing you do is you acknowledge it as what it is okay this happened but immediately say and believe and feel good when you say it i don't know why but this will turn out to my advantage and i'm going to take this opportunity to now focus on what i want because i know i don't want this i don't want more of this let me let me think about what i really want and it really allows you to clarify your thinking in relationships for example this happens you're in a relationship with somebody and you're arguing and you're fighting and you're not feeling fulfilled and you're irritated and things just aren't going well and your lover leaves you and you are in desperate pain and so forth take that as the best opportunity in the world and say look this person left me and say okay now i can clearly define because now i was in a relationship and i wasn't getting my needs met so rather than focus on what i wasn't getting from this relationship and how terrible it was and how terrible this person was let me now clearly figure out based on my experience with this person what do i really want now and now you can really clearly define what kind of person what kind of personality you want see anytime you go through something negative anytime you taste bitterness you can define what you want you go to a buffet and you start taking some food and go oh i don't like i don't want that that i don't like no problem when the when you are at a buffet and you taste different things if you take something you hate it's good because now you know what you don't like so now you can clearly define what you do want