cd 06 part 3

okay great so we have that list now by show of hands here here in the room how many people have some on the list that are one everybody okay how many have three four five six seven that are one okay everybody okay does anybody here have something that's a ten yeah everybody okay so you all have something that's a ten here's the point when you are starting this process you can't focus on the things on your list that are one because you have no belief you'll achieve them and this is why people who read the book the secret people who read Think and Grow Rich people who go to various Law of Attraction seminars missed the whole point you go to goal setting seminars success seminars and they talk about dream big get your dream bigger you need the magic of thinking big that's a great book by the way the magic of thinking book good people are teaching you to get this outrageous big dream and focus on it and they give you all these techniques to focus on this big dream and you go through 10 years of your life and never comes in and you're frustrated because you don't believe you're gonna get it and it's never going to come in because you're you're vibrating you're transmitting an intention of getting it and a counter intention of you don't believe it therefore it's never gonna come in so the the method that we were taught in the societies was very simple this is not a race everybody's different everybody's different some people are going to believe that they can become a billionaire you know the day after college or you know halfway into college or when they're 12 and another person will may never believe it for a lot reasons like yeah I'm not gonna get to all the reasons I'm giving you the facts here so what you need to do is you need to start with dreams or goals or desires or objectives that you can believe in now let me tell you what the sweet spot is if you look at that list which one should you focus on well you should focus on the tens however there is a sweet spot and let me explain what the sweet spot is the desire that you want the goal that you want the objective that you want the dream that you want the thing that you want that will come to you the fastest is a dream or a goal or an objective or a desire that's in the sweet spot and what is the sweet spot the sweet spot is something you want which you really really want which has high high high excitement desire gets the juices flowing get you excited when you think about getting it get you really motivated lights your fire and at the same time you absolutely believe you can get it now the sweet spot has to be in both so let's walk on both sides here and let me show you the differences let's say you had in your list I want to go to this fancy French French restaurant you've always wanted to go there and you know what 10 it cost a couple hundred dollars and it could have a you know your just the thought of going to this restaurant just for you turned you on like I really really feel like all how good I would feel aha remember what I said the most important thing is feel good now aha that's why I said that because the sweet spot is a goal that you know you would feel so good when you get it and you believe that you can get it right now maybe you only have the ability to look you keep focusing on this radar screen and you and you can see that you know I get a Christmas bonus coming up maybe I'll get or I'll get some you know some money for my birthday so you can see already a wait you're still too focused on the how but you're thinking about the how so you're thinking I can you're already figuring out ways to do it which makes your belief go up you see when you get to unconscious competence the how becomes irrelevant and the more you do this all of a sudden what occurs is any dream your belief goes sky-high because you have no clue of how it's going to happen you just know from experience that whatever you want happens but you can't do that now because success builds confidence so in the beginning you have to get some successes some of you on your list I may say I want to meet a mate that's my goal and you may say look I know I'll meet a mate I don't know how I know it'll happen I don't know why anybody know what'll happen so that could be as a goal on your list and the thought of meeting a mate and have being in a passionate loving relationship a fulfilling relationship is really exciting to you and maybe you have a high level of belief and a high desire for it and that's in your sweet spot but let me tell you what's not in the sweet spot the sweet spot is I want to start my own business and when you think about starting your own business you think about the dream you think about how much you would enjoy it you get so fired up about starting your own business maybe it's a rest or a flourish shop or something and you just get so excited about it then when I say what's your belief that you can achieve this all of a sudden all this doubt pops into your head and you have massive doubt and your belief crashes that goal right now is not in your sweet spot the sweet spot has to be a goal that you are really excited about really fired up about that you know will make you feel fantastic and you feel good just thinking about it see all of these goals and objectives make you feel good when you think about them so finding a goal in the sweet spot to focus on or finding something you want first look at the objective think about it it makes you feel good you're looking for something that makes you feel really good really excited really motivated you need massive desire remember Napoleon Hill to find your dream and get a burning desire for its achievement so the first question is which of these dreams do you have a burning desire for not just that oh I'd like to go to that restaurant so which of the dreams on your list do you have a burning desire for it when you think about it then which are the ones that you have a burning desire for do you have a high belief 8 9 or 10 those are the ones in the sweet spot right now some of you thinking boy I don't have very many that's ok because there is a success cycle it's a motivation cycle when you do something for the first time and you see it work and you see the success your belief goes up that this works and once you start seeing magic happen once you start seeing something occur that you didn't know how it would occur because you couldn't see how by looking at your radar screen all of a sudden you start believing this is possible this is possible this stuff works this stuff works and all of a sudden the dreams that you have burning desires for all of a sudden now start getting matched up with a belief that you can actually achieve them so the belief level starts going up which is what Napoleon Hill said define your dream and get a burning desire for its achievement but the key is believe now this is a scriptural principle as well for those of you who are Christians and we know we have Muslims here and and that you're Hindu right Buddhist oh and we have an atheist we we have a lot of different groups here and this is not a religious meeting but for those of you who are from the Christian background scripturally it specifically says this it says ask and you shall receive and it says you get not because you ask not asking is you putting out into the universe what you want putting out into the universe what you want is using your brain to think about what you want which puts out into the universe a transmission of a frequency you do that with high power and high intensity with a long duration with belief it'll come back without any counter intention it'll come in and it says that it says ask and believe that what you are asking for you shall receive and you shall have whatsoever you ask that's scriptural so that's a scriptural basis and therein you're shaking your head yeah in in your religious texts it's the same thing virtually all religious texts give these same principles because they are universal and their physical laws so the key here to getting whatever you want is this first define what you want there's three ways to define what you want very specific general or just I'm I just want to feel good okay those are the three ways think about it when you think about it you have to have a burning desire if you don't have a burning desire and someone says well you know there's really nothing I want that gives me a burning desire do you want to feel good okay you need to get a burning desire for something now if you don't have a burning desire we'll address that and then in a couple sessions actually we'll just that tomorrow when it comes to money if you don't have burning desires but the first step is you must define what you want and the best way to do that is take a piece of paper not a PC but take a piece of paper and a pen and just write down anything and everything you want and what you should do is you should have a book not a PC don't do it in the computer get yourself a notebook or some type of spiral bound book where you can rip out pages and add pages it could be a small one could be a big one I like eight and a half by eleven here in Europe we use an a4 which is a little bigger piece of paper and and just call it your dream book and anytime you think of something you want to do no matter how crazy how outrageous whatever just write that down and then every once in a while scan these goals these dreams these desires and decide which one is really giving you a burning desire and then decide what is your what is your belief level now I'm gonna show you how to start slowly getting this belief level up because there's a few ways to do that but the first thing is defying your dream either something specific something general or just feeling good the dream that you define you have to have a burning desire for which means something it really gets your juices flowing that you really really really really really want then match it up to make sure it's in the sweet spot which means you have to have a high level of belief that you'll get it eight nine or ten if you don't we're going to talk about how to correct that but if you don't don't focus on it right now because you're just gonna get frustrated because it's not gonna come in then all you do is you focus on what you want believing you will receive it so the key is this and we're gonna do this exercise so everybody listening to the CD and everybody was here in the room go through that list and just pick one we're gonna do the exercise I'm gonna show you what the physical manifestation is so pick something you have a high desire for you have a high burning desire floor pick one of the items just one that you have a high burning desire for that you'll also have a high belief in 8 9 or 10 that you can get but do you believe you can actually get it okay pick one okay now what I want you to do you can do this with your eyes open or your eyes closed is I want you to picture this in your mind picture what you want picture what you want and picture it in color and I want you to not only look at it in color but also look at it and listen to the sights the sounds think about the emotions you'll have if you got this and I want you to add yourself into the picture see yourself in the picture so picture that thing that you want see it in color hear the sounds if there are any smells around it maybe some of you have a desire to go to an island if there's smells get the cells smells what emotions are you feeling put yourself in the picture see yourself really happy what emotions do you have okay and everybody here in the room smiling by the way now I want you to imagine that you already have this if it's a car I want you to physically imagine that you're driving the car and how you are feeling driving in the car feel the emotions imagine how great it's gonna feel and how good it does feel picture this okay open up your eyes now how people here in the room feel better than you just a minute ago everybody if you're at home don't you feel great if you feel bad that means your level of belief is not high that means this goal is not in the sweet spot so the the method here of getting what you want is defining what you want making sure you have a high burning desire for its achievement and making sure that you have a high level of belief that you can achieve it you'll know that because when you think about it you will feel good if you think about that goal or that dream or that desire just like we did and you feel better your actual feelings get better you're in the sweet spot if your feelings get lower you get depressed frustrated angry annoyed that means you're not in the sweet spot because that means you don't have a high level of belief that you can get it right now doesn't mean you'll never get it we just have to change that level of belief which we're gonna do and I'm going to teach you exactly how to do that when we come back any questions comments or observations about this particular procedure the bottom line is this you must define your dream it's got to be either specific it can be very general or it can be just I want to feel good that's my objective you must have a burning desire for it that dream otherwise you won't be able to put out a transmission that is powerful enough or intense enough and for a long duration and you must believe that it'll come in and we're going to talk about how to get that belief up because that's the biggest thing we're also going to talk specifically about how to get the desire up for the dream so and talk about both of those things we come back and we're gonna start doing some specific exercises on this this and we'll start applying this in real life when we come back okay if you're listening to the CD this is the end of this CD we'll catch you on the next one